Prologue: I saw a post from someone called MSpices on Aishatu's wall titled "Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women". I decided to mirror the post by changing every " he" to "she", " husband " to "wife" and vice versa. I hope you like it. Enjoy...
Strange Men
The world is increasingly going through the challenges of modernization throwing up pressure to marriages. Smart phones and other IT devices are delivering nudes, new wave of friendship down to the bedrooms of people. A woman could be talking with her husband in the bedroom while she’s chatting with another man without the knowledge of her husband. All these have piled up pressures on husbands seeking to have stable marriages. Here are some ways to secure your wife from strange men and secure your marriage.
Serve Her What She Likes
During jokes or conversations, your wife would have told you what she likes and without being told, a husband should know what his wife likes. It is your duty to please her when it is within your power to do so. Some wives love telenovellas to the extent that they go outside to watch with their friends.
Hear this testimony: This man said his wife was always leaving the house to watch Telemundo outside and the Spirit said to him he could make her watch it at home and wisdom came. He asked her the next time the telenovella was showing and she told him. He prepared for that day, bought her kind of drink and put it in the fridge and fried some chicken.
On that day, as the wife was about going out again, he told her he was going to watch Telemundo with her and she reluctantly agreed to watch at home. The telenovella started and they were watching. Later, he brought in her best drink and some fried chicken. She was surprised at the husband. He analyzed the telenovella so well, she was shocked. Actually, he had read about the telenovella on the internet and crammed all the names and their stories. She was so impressed. From that day onwards, she stayed at home.
If you can get her to stay at home most of the time, she will lose interest in other men. That will be your assignment. Every woman has a soft spot and only a wise husband can know that.
Some wives love sex. Hear this. A man said while we were discussing that his wife can never date another man. I was shocked and asked him what he meant. He said he discovered that his wife likes men and probably has men outside. He decided to go out of his way to really please her sexually. In the morning while she was dressing for work, he would invite her for sex and satisfy her. He really gave it to her every time that he observed she no longer hides to receive calls and stayed at home most of the time. She even confessed when the other men disturbed her so much. According to him, there was a day she told him she could never do without him and requested if he would travel with her on official trip for a seminar, he gladly obliged her. That was how he regained his wife to himself.
I was in disbelief that a man could go all the length to fight for his woman.
Man, you too can be led be the Holy Spirit. Everything is not fight and quarrel. I have had course to tell some men seeking divorce, even if you leave her and remarry, you would eventually be faced with the other woman’s challenge. Divorce is not the answer in most cases.
Escort her to the gate
Always try to escort her to the car or the gate and tell her ‘my angel is watching over you. Go and return to me safely. I love you’ then give her a kiss. Never leave your wife without a kiss in the public or private. Those prophetic words are arrows fired into the air and will not return to you void without fulfilling its purpose. We have a weapon in our mouth. We shouldn’t use it to destroy our families but rather use it to build them.
Don’t be too careless not to be observant
Men are talented in this area that they can sense another man’s intention towards their women unless they choose to ignore it. In most cases, the women hardly know or see it. The women always think it is a harmless hug, or friendship and not until it manifests before they begin to realize that their husbands were right after all.
The challenge here is that most men are unable to manage the situation due to their emotions. My advice is simple, if you observe that a particular man is too close to your wife, make friends with him and try to offer him what help he needs that draws him close to your wife. If it is prayer, pray with him. If it is counsel, sit down to understand his situation and counsel him. If it is money or other things within your power, give to him and you would be surprised you have rescued your wife. Man to man, he would understand your intentions and stay clear.
Don’t be too careless and say she is a Christian and she can take care of the situation. Some women of God have fallen to this trick and their ministries ruined. This counsel is particularly good for husbands of ordained ministers and pastors because of their assignment in the house of God. Husbsnds should help their wives stay focused to their marriage, calling or assignment.
Don’t let jealousy take the better part of you
You must tame that leopard called jealousy. It has a way of roaring without control in men, so that things don't go out of hand. If your wife suspects you are jealous, she will watch your every move. Take control of the situation.
Source:
http://marriagespices.com/5-ways-secure-husband-strange-women (But edited and posted on my Facebook wall, Facebook page and blog)
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